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</html><description>2012-05-12 (Welcome back, lovelies. Here&#x2019;s something I started on even before I had committed to a return to blogging. I&#x2019;ve got a list of other topics, but feel free to ask if there&#x2019;s something you want me to write about. And do visit the Varnish site for more band-centric news. Cheers!) I was talking recently with another artist who was hesitant to release her newest song. She knew that people would assume it was about a particular person, and that assumption could lead to significant repercussions. I empathised as we talked about her options for response. Option One: Deny all allegations. Personally, I&#x2019;ve written some things that even those closest to me got wrong when they guessed the topic. (The subject of authorial/artistic intent is a chunky one, worthy of its own post, mind you. In this case, I&#x2019;m talking about something more specific, involving an &#x201C;audience&#x201D; with inside information who still get it wrong.) It happens to the best of us, and I&#x2019;m happy when I can deny allegations without having to lie. Honesty is ridiculously important to me, so getting to keep my integrity and avoid drama is awesome. Which led me to suggest to her (without asking [&hellip;]</description><thumbnail_url>http://www.amberbird.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/056-IMG_1922-300x254.jpg</thumbnail_url></oembed>
