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</html><description>I&#x2019;ve had a potentially controversial epiphany this weekend. And, whilst wisdom might dictate that I keep it to myself, I&#x2019;m sharing just in case it&#x2019;s as good for you as it&#x2019;s been for me. But I do want to be clear that I&#x2019;m not judging those who don&#x2019;t feel like this is the right answer for them. I respect those who&#x2019;ve found paths and forged ahead in ways I&#x2019;ve not managed and I wish them (you) nothing but goodness. As I often do, and as many musicians and other artists often do, I was pondering how to quit my day job entirely and live on my art. (Not because I&#x2019;m lazy; anyone who knows the work I put into Varnish will tell you that it&#x2019;s a full-time job on its own. Add in side projects of various types, and I put in more hours than most non-artists I know.) I was feeling extra eager to sort out how to do this because another friend has recently quit her day job, and all her income is now from things related to her creative abilities. And, just to make it seem more necessary, some of my less active projects have suddenly gotten [&hellip;]</description><thumbnail_url>http://www.amberbird.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/DSC01041-sm1.jpg</thumbnail_url></oembed>
