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</html><description>I&#x2019;m starting a new series of posts that I&#x2019;ll post here and then cross-post to another part of my site. If you want to check in on it without reading through the blog, you can go to its home page. Otherwise, on Sundays (starting tomorrow), I&#x2019;ll post here and cross-post there. For those who want to comment, I&#x2019;ve thought about it and decided that I&#x2019;m going to be stricter on what sort of comments I allow on the Not Ashamed posts. I&#x2019;m putting a big part of myself out there doing these posts, and I don&#x2019;t feel I owe anyone additional information or explanations, nor do I have any interest in or obligation to defend myself to anyone. Thanks for your understanding! After making the post below on social media, it was interesting (and sometimes painful) to process how others reacted to it. It quickly became clear to me that each of us assumes a whole lot of things based on a label, a word or two, and that what we assume doesn&#x2019;t necessarily overlap with what others assume or with the truth of the person to whom the label is applied. For the last few months, I&#x2019;ve been thinking [&hellip;]</description><thumbnail_url>https://www.amberbird.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/AmberBird_fromPF_portraitSQ.jpg</thumbnail_url><thumbnail_width>1324</thumbnail_width><thumbnail_height>1324</thumbnail_height></oembed>
