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</html><description>If you haven&#xE2;&#x20AC;&#x2122;t already, please read the introduction post. That will give you context for this page. Feminist: an advocate of social, political, legal, and economic rights for women equal to those of men. That&#xE2;&#x20AC;&#x2122;s the dictionary definition and the one that every feminist I know would agree is correct. We might have different ideas about how to procure those rights, but it is inherent in the definition that this is about equality, not about subjugating men (the way they&#xE2;&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve subjugated women for most of history). Anyone who says that it means something else is wrong. If they aren&#xE2;&#x20AC;&#x2122;t feminists or are opposed to feminists, well, why are you letting them define what feminists are? And if they claim to be feminists&#x2026;they might be adding their own spin, and their spin doesn&#xE2;&#x20AC;&#x2122;t apply to every other one of us who wears this label without shame. I can&#xE2;&#x20AC;&#x2122;t even fathom the logic of expecting me to be ashamed of wanting myself, of wanting all humans, to have equal rights. I&#xE2;&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve been very lucky in my life to have parents who did their best to raise me to believe that my worth, and the rights and respect I deserved, was not tied [&hellip;]</description><thumbnail_url>https://www.amberbird.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/AmberBird_fromPF_portraitSQ.jpg</thumbnail_url><thumbnail_width>1324</thumbnail_width><thumbnail_height>1324</thumbnail_height></oembed>
