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</html><description>If you haven&#xE2;&#x20AC;&#x2122;t already, please read the introduction post. That will give you context for this page. Note: This wasn&#x2019;t on the original list, but it seemed like a necessary update to the topic. As of today, it&#xE2;&#x20AC;&#x2122;s now 2 years since I was diagnosed as being autistic. I&#xE2;&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve been meaning to write an updated post for my Not Ashamed series, but I&#xE2;&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve been so busy. And, even today, I should be writing things for my upcoming blog tour, so this will be shorter and less detailed than it could have been. I wanted to write because I&#xE2;&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve learnt a lot since my diagnosis and because I no longer want to hold back on details of the reality of my own autistic experience and challenges. Frankly, if you don&#xE2;&#x20AC;&#x2122;t want to know me or work with me because of that, then it&#xE2;&#x20AC;&#x2122;s just best for us all if you don&#xE2;&#x20AC;&#x2122;t. (Not that I have time to enumerate my particular autistic traits right now&#x2026;) I&#xE2;&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve learnt a lot about autism in general, about ableism (because, with the current structure and expectations of society, autism is a disability), about the difference of being a woman or girl on the spectrum instead of [&hellip;]</description><thumbnail_url>https://www.amberbird.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/AmberBird_fromPF_portraitSQ.jpg</thumbnail_url><thumbnail_width>1324</thumbnail_width><thumbnail_height>1324</thumbnail_height></oembed>
