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</html><description>I think I&#xE2;&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve mentioned it enough and am open enough about it that you likely already know that I&#xE2;&#x20AC;&#x2122;m Autistic. What you might not have known, until someone mentioned it in Peace Maker, is that Katja (the main character of the Peaceforger trilogy) is also #ActuallyAutistic. And you can&#xE2;&#x20AC;&#x2122;t be blamed for not knowing, because&#x2026; &#x2026;Because nobody said anything about it in Peace Fire, even though she was as Autistic then as in the second book. Just like my friends, as far as I know, aren&#xE2;&#x20AC;&#x2122;t constantly talking about me being Autistic. &#x2026;Because women and girls on the spectrum remain under-diagnosed. I&#xE2;&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve even heard about one man who specialises in assessing autism who missed that his own daughter is Autistic. (The studies and figures cling to the gender binary, but I imagine this generally applies to AFAB people. Also, I am uncomfortable using the word &#xE2;&#x20AC;&#x153;diagnosed&#xE2;&#x20AC;&#x9D; in this context, as autism isn&#xE2;&#x20AC;&#x2122;t an illness, but&#x2026;that&#xE2;&#x20AC;&#x2122;s another topic.) &#x2026;Because I only got my autism assessment in 2014 and it took me a while to feel I had a right to really claim or write that reality. Since Peace Fire finally found its way to the page for the first time in [&hellip;]</description><thumbnail_url>http://www.amberbird.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/2020-11-17_ActuallyKatja-768x639.jpg</thumbnail_url></oembed>
