{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Amber Bird | Blog","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.amberbird.com\/blog","author_name":"amber","author_url":"https:\/\/www.amberbird.com\/blog\/author\/admin\/","title":"Not That Kind of Conservative - Amber Bird | Blog","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"PVwdUoPIgp\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amberbird.com\/blog\/2012\/11\/10\/not-that-kind-of-conservative\/\">Not That Kind of Conservative<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/www.amberbird.com\/blog\/2012\/11\/10\/not-that-kind-of-conservative\/embed\/#?secret=PVwdUoPIgp\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;Not That Kind of Conservative&#8221; &#8212; Amber Bird | Blog\" data-secret=\"PVwdUoPIgp\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script>\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/\/# sourceURL=https:\/\/www.amberbird.com\/blog\/wp-includes\/js\/wp-embed.min.js\n<\/script>\n","description":"I&#8217;ve been thinking a lot about when to be generous and when to be conservative in my life. And here&#8217;s some of what I&#8217;ve sorted about where I either currently stand or where I think I ought to stand. Be generous when: Tipping my server Seasoning my food Showing love to those who matter to me Shining out what light I have &nbsp; Be conservative when: Deciding whom and what to give my time to Giving my trust Giving up my privacy On a similar track, I believe in: Dreaming big whilst not losing track of reality. Giving everything I can to the people and things I believe in whilst not bankrupting myself (in any way). Letting myself fully relish my loves and joys without neglecting my responsibilities. Giving frequent, sincere compliments\/praise and being thoughtful about offering criticism. When do you dive in and when do you walk away? Cos I think that says a lot about a person&#8230; (Because I know I&#8217;ll be busy all weekend getting ready for the show, I&#8217;m getting this ready Thursday night and telling the app to publish it for me early Saturday. Hopefully, you&#8217;re reading this at that time&#8230;Otherwise, I swear that&#8217;s what [&hellip;]","thumbnail_url":"http:\/\/www.amberbird.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/11\/IMG_3254-sm.jpg"}