{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Amber Bird | Blog","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.amberbird.com\/blog","author_name":"amber","author_url":"https:\/\/www.amberbird.com\/blog\/author\/admin\/","title":"Not Ashamed: Sexual Assault - Amber Bird | Blog","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"m20wqGUOFm\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amberbird.com\/blog\/2015\/03\/22\/not-ashamed-sexual-assault\/\">Not Ashamed: Sexual Assault<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/www.amberbird.com\/blog\/2015\/03\/22\/not-ashamed-sexual-assault\/embed\/#?secret=m20wqGUOFm\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;Not Ashamed: Sexual Assault&#8221; &#8212; Amber Bird | Blog\" data-secret=\"m20wqGUOFm\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script>\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/\/# sourceURL=https:\/\/www.amberbird.com\/blog\/wp-includes\/js\/wp-embed.min.js\n<\/script>\n","description":"If you haven\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t already, please read the introduction post. That will give you context for this page. (Trigger warning: sexual violence) Before I say the things that keep crowding my brain, causing me to write a topic out of order again (and there\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s a second topic close behind, so I guarantee we\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ll continue to be out of order), there are a few things I wanted to make clear. In my list of labels, I called this \u00e2\u20ac\u0153victimised by a sexual predator.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d I chose that phrase very carefully to put the blame where it belongs and to make it clear that I don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t think of myself, in general, as a victim. Yes, in this context, I was the victim of the act, but I am not a victim. I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m a strong, capable person who has had some crap things happen to them. I won\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t be describing anything about what happened. And, no matter who you are, I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m not interested in talking about it. I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ve gotten professional help. I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m okay. There\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s no possible positive outcome for me to talking about it. (And, no, adults and friends who care about me, you carry no blame and you couldn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t have done anything. Please, don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t [&hellip;]","thumbnail_url":"http:\/\/www.amberbird.com\/images\/sa_huffpost.png"}