{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Amber Bird | Blog","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.amberbird.com\/blog","author_name":"amber","author_url":"https:\/\/www.amberbird.com\/blog\/author\/admin\/","title":"Not Ashamed: Unconcerned with Acting my Age - Amber Bird | Blog","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"haGFohZZbd\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amberbird.com\/blog\/2015\/09\/13\/not-ashamed-unconcerned-with-acting-my-age\/\">Not Ashamed: Unconcerned with Acting my Age<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/www.amberbird.com\/blog\/2015\/09\/13\/not-ashamed-unconcerned-with-acting-my-age\/embed\/#?secret=haGFohZZbd\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;Not Ashamed: Unconcerned with Acting my Age&#8221; &#8212; Amber Bird | Blog\" data-secret=\"haGFohZZbd\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script>\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/\/# sourceURL=https:\/\/www.amberbird.com\/blog\/wp-includes\/js\/wp-embed.min.js\n<\/script>\n","description":"If you haven\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t already, please read the introduction post. That will give you context for this page. I can\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t even recall when I was first shamed for not acting my age. Sometimes it was for doing things that were culturally considered \u00e2\u20ac\u0153too young\u00e2\u20ac\u009d for my age. Sometimes it was for things that were culturally considered \u00e2\u20ac\u0153too old\u00e2\u20ac\u009d for my age. I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ve never seemed to get age right. The things that were \u00e2\u20ac\u0153too old\u00e2\u20ac\u009d weren\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t as exciting as you might think. In fact, it was always for times I was \u00e2\u20ac\u0153too serious\u00e2\u20ac\u009d or my intellectual pursuits were above my expected level. Yes, really. Obviously, when balanced with the \u00e2\u20ac\u0153too young\u00e2\u20ac\u009d stuff (so that you know I didn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t forget being young), I find this particular one almost too ridiculous to even address and I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m certainly not going to feel ashamed of this. The \u00e2\u20ac\u0153too young\u00e2\u20ac\u009d stuff, of course, is a common one. \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Act your age!\u00e2\u20ac\u009d seems to be something most of us have heard at some point. Of course, most people eventually take that to heart. Even when it\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s not reasonable and related to immature behaviours (like adults throwing tantrums and such things). Even when it\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s not true to who they are. [&hellip;]","thumbnail_url":"http:\/\/www.amberbird.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/049-IMG_1833.jpg"}