{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Amber Bird | Blog","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.amberbird.com\/blog","author_name":"amber","author_url":"https:\/\/www.amberbird.com\/blog\/author\/admin\/","title":"Not Ashamed: Goth, Punk, Not Goth, Not Punk - Amber Bird | Blog","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"R6sddZlYcG\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amberbird.com\/blog\/2015\/11\/29\/not-ashamed-gpngnp\/\">Not Ashamed: Goth, Punk, Not Goth, Not Punk<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/www.amberbird.com\/blog\/2015\/11\/29\/not-ashamed-gpngnp\/embed\/#?secret=R6sddZlYcG\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;Not Ashamed: Goth, Punk, Not Goth, Not Punk&#8221; &#8212; Amber Bird | Blog\" data-secret=\"R6sddZlYcG\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script>\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/\/# sourceURL=https:\/\/www.amberbird.com\/blog\/wp-includes\/js\/wp-embed.min.js\n<\/script>\n","description":"If you haven\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t already, please read the introduction post. That will give you context for this page. I tried to find a way to write this as 4 different posts, because I know we\u00e2\u20ac\u2122re getting near the end of the list and some of you who have let me know you look forward to these weekly posts. But it didn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t feel right as 4 different posts, even though it\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s 4 different labels. Sorry. In my next life, I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ll try to be more objectionable. These days, I see myself as a richly multi-faceted person. I like what I like, even if it seems at odds with other things I like. I wear the clothes that make me happy, even if others\u00e2\u20ac\u201dincluding friends\u00e2\u20ac\u201ddon\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t know how to classify me. That such classifications are important to humans is a thing I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ve felt and kind of understood, but that also has always seemed a little silly. (The need to classify others is silly, to be clear. I don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t think figuring out who you are or figuring out that you truly fit quite neatly into some specific label is necessarily silly.) The anger and aggression and political disgust of punk speak to me. The acceptance of [&hellip;]","thumbnail_url":"http:\/\/www.amberbird.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/promgoth.jpg"}