{"id":4,"date":"2008-01-31T11:49:09","date_gmt":"2008-01-31T19:49:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.amberbird.com\/blog\/2008\/01\/31\/yes-i-have-a-mum\/"},"modified":"2008-01-31T11:49:09","modified_gmt":"2008-01-31T19:49:09","slug":"yes-i-have-a-mum","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.amberbird.com\/blog\/2008\/01\/31\/yes-i-have-a-mum\/","title":{"rendered":"yes, i have a mum"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>before things go too far, i thought i should mention where my mum fits into all this. if i just talk about my dad, you may think he was a single parent. which isn&#8217;t the case. it&#8217;s just that, to be honest, i&#8217;m not sure that mum&#8217;s contribution of neil diamond had much of an influence.<\/p>\n<p>now, i won&#8217;t pretend i can&#8217;t sing along with a song or two, especially songs from the <em>jazz singer<\/em> soundtrack. i am not here to start some sort of &#8220;amber hates neil diamond&#8221; drama. i mean, wearing a black neil diamond t-shirt at college caused great confusion and glee. (the most visible thing on the shirt, from a distance, was &#8220;diamond,&#8221; which caused many people to believe it must be a king diamond shirt.) but, really, i&#8217;ll be interested in hearing if anyone can locate the influence of mr. diamond or his peers in our music.<\/p>\n<p>mum&#8217;s interaction with the music i like has been pretty limited as well. whilst i was learning to drive and she was in the car, she did get a carefully selected exposure to things i liked. but it became clear that she wasn&#8217;t really engaged when she noted, not using names but saying things like &#8220;that last band&#8221; and &#8220;this band,&#8221; that the smiths were much happier music than the cocteau twins. i guess that means i need not have been so worried about what she might think of the lyrics&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>as far as her response to my music&#8230;well, let&#8217;s just say she isn&#8217;t a fan and leave it at that. and let&#8217;s also say that i wasn&#8217;t surprised and not really hurt by that. so it&#8217;s okay.<\/p>\n<p>and that is why you are unlikely to hear much about mum here. not that i plan to talk much about the other members of my family either. but i thought i should at least acknowledge that i have a mum and she was very present in my life but doesn&#8217;t really have much to do with my music.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>before things go too far, i thought i should mention where my mum fits into all this. if i just talk about my dad, you may think he was a single parent. which isn&#8217;t the case. it&#8217;s just that, to be honest, i&#8217;m not sure that mum&#8217;s contribution of neil diamond had much of an influence. now, i won&#8217;t pretend i can&#8217;t sing along with a song or two, especially songs from the jazz singer soundtrack. i am not here to start some sort of &#8220;amber hates neil diamond&#8221; drama. i mean, wearing a black neil diamond t-shirt at college caused great confusion and glee. 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